Here is a study that i do not find shocking. Turn out women in long term relationships living with their partner, are more likely to lose their sexual interest with their mate. Sure it can go the other way as well but you ladies are about 34% into and the men only 15%. There were a lot of common reasons why the subjects said they had lost their desire ranging from health reasons to depression. However the couples who were able to keep it going over the years said they were able to do so because it was easy to talk about sex with their partner. Click here for more.